Wholistic or Ballistic?

We were debating whether we could get the whole family ready to go out the door to mid week service or not, when we examined K, her clothes were soiled, hair sticky, and diaper iffy, so it’s just going to be me and B.
"eating is a wholistic experience for babies." commented DH
"Wholistic or ballistic?" asked B
"With babies, it can be both!" answered DH.